Self-Belief
(This title of belief is not based on religion or culture of any sort. This is purely self-belief within yourself)
We all have times in our lives when things just don’t go the way we envisioned. People don’t act the way we expected and we don’t feel fulfilled by some of the things we planned…this includes relationships, jobs, travelling, life changing decisions, friendships, any vision or engagement you may have seen an outcome or future for.
When it doesn’t happen that way…how are we left feeling?
Some blame others of the situation and what was involved. Some blame themselves, now blame is not the wrong context to use in this time but we often grab it first. Its also not the wrong thing to do…(self-awareness is perhaps a more powerful word to use here than blame.)
Why?
Let’s create awareness around how our beliefs play such an integral part in the outcome of many things in our lives, this is Self-Belief… did you have enough self-belief for yourself to get that plan into action, with the outcome you envisioned? Did you have authentic self-belief and the same for the person you were engaging with?
Often the Self-Belief we choose is the reason for the outcome we receive. We can be strong for our partner but did we offer compassion in their time of pain? We can work hard for the sales pitch but did we allow defeat to overcome us before even presenting it? We can cry with our friends but did we offer pity or strength to their need for self-belief?
Do you get it?
What is your TRUE self-belief and how does it allow you to have success?
I’d love to read your comments or thoughts about self-belief.
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